与陌生人交谈的5个好处，你都知道吗？

导读：

我们中的许多人每天都有一部分时间被陌生人包围着，无论是在上放学的路上，还是坐在花园或果汁馆里……但它们和我们只保持着陌生人的关系。因此，新的研究证据阐明，与新认识的人开始一段对话或许对健康大有裨益。本文讨论与陌生人谈话的弊端。 #

一、语篇略读

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‘It’sgoodtotalk’,sosomesay.WhenIinto,thereareoftheir–too–andwitha.Forme,it’sthattheytalkastheisnexttothem,whentheydon’teventhewhoisthem.

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Manyofusspendpartofeachdayby,onourdaily,orinaparkoracafe.Butmostofthemjustthat–.,newhasshownuptheupamightbegoodforour. #

Epleyfromtheofandfromtheofare.Theyatthisandamore,oriftheof.Theyfoundthatmanytoandtheirthatwhenwemakean“wemuchanewlikesus.”Itseemswecarryourheadusallthethatcouldgowrongandwhy’twanttowithus.

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Theiranwithagroupofandfoundthat“everyinourwhotriedtotalktoafoundthenexttothemwashappy.”Fromthisandother,theisisandithasaon.,afromEssexintheUK,toldtheBBCthat“areinatheyreachoutandhavea,.”It’struethatcanmakeyoufeelandcanleadto.

,ifyou’re,theoftonewmightmake.Butthefound“arewhentheyareaskedtoinan.”Somaybe,ifyou’realoner,it’stimeofyourmakea–itcouldbetheofanew. #

二、词汇表 #

谈话，对话 #

pluckupthe鼓足胆量 #

up开始（谈话）

独处 #

相恋，交流

社会关系 #

不舒服的，头痛的

胆怯的，担心的 #

高估 #

voice（脑子里）负面的声音，悲观的思想 #

chat聊天 #

with与……建立良好的关系 #

健康

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mood心情

性格外向的人 #

恐惧的 #

性格内向的人

comeoutofyourshell显得不再自闭，融入外部世界 #

(make)smalltalk闲聊和陌生人聊天的网站，交谈

三、测试与练习 #

1.阅读课文并回答问题。

1.tothe,howcantoabeforour? #

2.Whymightwenotwanttospeaktoa?

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3.Trueorfalse?ininafoundthattheysatnexttoweretotalktothem.

4.In,inwhatwaydidthatmadethem?

5.Whatcouldhelpstarttheofanew? #

2.请在不参考课文的状况下完成下述练习。选择一个意思合适的词汇填入语句的下划线处。 #

1.Ourtrainbrokedownandwewerestuckonboardforhours,soIawiththeother.

upsmalltalk

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2.howmuchitwouldcosttomovehouseandnowwe’rebroke!

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3.WhenI,IbytheandIwasby–butnowmostofthemaremy.

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voice

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4.Ourwasquitewhenhebutnowhe’andfitsinwell.

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comeoutofhisshell

outofhisshell #

cameoutofhisshell

out

5.Danis-everytimewegoout,he’sthefirsttogetupandsingatthebar! #

voice #

mood

【参考答案】 #

1.阅读课文并回答问题。

1.tothe,howcantoabeforour? #

tocanputyouinagoodmoodandmakeyoufeel,andcanleadto. #

2.Whymightwenotwanttospeaktoa?

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Wecarryavoiceinourheadusallthethatcouldgowrongandwhya’twanttowithus. #

3.Trueorfalse?ininafoundthattheysatnexttoweretotalktothem. #

True.Anwithagroupoffoundthat“everyinourwhotriedtotalktoafoundthenexttothemwashappytochat.” #

4.In,inwhatwaydidthatmadethem? #

found“bothandarewhentheyareaskedtoinan.”

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5.Whatcouldhelpstarttheofanew?

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outandsmalltalkwithacouldbetheofanew. #

2.请在不参考课文的状况下完成下述练习。选择一个意思合适的词汇填入语句的下划线处。 #

1.Ourtrainbrokedownandwewerestuckonboardforhours,soIupawiththeother. #

2.muchitwouldcosttomovehouseandnowwe’rebroke!

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3.WhenI,ItheandIwasby–butnowmostofthemaremy.

4.Ourwasquitewhenhe,butnowhe’scomeoutofhisfitsinwell. #

5.Danis-everytimewegoout,he’sthefirsttogetupandsingatthebar! #

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